One day.. A young man
come to Rasulullah (ﷺ) he said
:
Ya Rasulullah.. Allow me to commit zina
The sahabah was angry, how could he ask the permission of
rasulullah to commit zina!
Rasulullah brought him forward and ask him to sit. Then the
prophet come closer to him..
Would you like that
your mother commit zina?
No! Said the young
man .. I would not want my mother to
commit adultery... I will give myself up
for you ya Rasulullah.. !
Would you like your
sister to do it?
No!
When you have a daughter..
would you like her to do it?
No!
Your aunty from your
father side?
No!
Your aunty from your
mother side?
No!
Rasulullah said..
People don’t want that for their mother, their sister, their daughter and even
their aunt...
Then Rasulullah put his hand on the young man’s chest.. and
make du’aa on him.
‘Oh Allah guard his heart, and protect his chestidy’
The young man was so pleased.. then he said
The thing that i
wanted most is to commit adultery and the thing that i hate most now is to
commit fornication.
Lessons :
1)
If you want to resolve a problem.. Don’t do it
on the phone or when the other person is on the other side.. Try to make sure you
are close to that person. Be sincere in your advice and one of the best way is
make it secretly. If you want to help them by making a change in their heart,
it sholud come from your heart too .. and
make a du’aa for them as well.InsyaAllah they will accept our advice.
‘ Advicing someone in front of
the others are embarrasmen ‘ Imaam As-Syafie
2)
Be polite. Rasulullah approach him him in such a
beautiful manner. He didn’t shame him aside. He did’nt say “are you crazy?? How
could you ask me that question??” as most of us will say so..This was an
extremely beautiful example of the hikmah of our prophet.. He knew that the
person doesnt have much knowledge and was dealing with ignoring young man.. So he make beautiful dua’aa
and give him understanding instead of saying bad thoings to him.. Saying bad
thing and being angry will not make the person to be close to islam.. It will
just make him further away from understanding.. Wallahua’lam
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